Etiquette

Following certain etiquette during our correspondence and when we meet will ensure our time together is the very best it can be.

Please always be polite when you contact me. Even after we have met, I appreciate that you sign your name to emails and texts and include your name in voice messages. Your good manners further endear me to you.

Please never put yourself in the position of having to explain our correspondence. It is in your best interest to use an email account that only you have access to. Likewise with your phone.

Please be discreet when arriving for our date. If you need to speak to me for any reason at the last minute, it is best to call me from your car or well away from the building, not in the front yard or foyer. Sending a text is also an option once we have spoken to confirm our date or we have previously met.

Please have perfect hygiene. Being freshly showered and with fresh breath makes me want to get close to you. I understand there are times you are unable to arrive perfectly groomed. I provide facilities and amenities for you to use at my place and will wait patiently while you do so.

Please never suggest I lower my standards. I have attracted you because you are like minded and value the precautions I take. They are in place for my physical safety, good health and mental comfort, as well as yours.

Please be sober. I can not let you in if you arrive inebriated.

Please be respectful of my time. I agree that time moves too quickly while we are together. Because our arrangement is to spend time together for a specific duration, I must be aware of when it is coming to an end in keeping with our agreement.

Please do not arrive early unannounced. I like to take my time getting ready for you and am often not ready until just a few minutes before our date. If you are running early, call or text to check if I can accommodate you. I may be able to.

Please let me know if you are running late. If you are running more than a few minutes late, be courteous and call or text. I will usually still be able to accommodate our full scheduled time if you are no more than 15 minutes late.

Please inform me if you can not keep our date. Even when you can only offer notice on the day of or a couple of hours ahead, I never impose a cancelation fee or expect reimbursement for costs associated with preparing for our date. I would just love the opportunity to reschedule with you! If you fail to show up without notice, I will be unable to schedule with you again.